Quick Tips To Improve Your One-on-One Meetings

Implementing the practice of conducting one-on-one meetings with your employees is an excellent way to begin establishing rapport, ultimately making your employees feel appreciated and improving their productivity levels overall. While most managers are aware of the benefits of one-on-ones, not every employer understands how to improve one-on-one meetings in an effective manner.  ​

In a survey by the collaborative app company known as Hypercontext, approximately “72% of managers indicated that one-on-ones were the most, or one of the most important things they do to manage the performance of their teams” and “75% of managers felt that employees left their one-on-ones more motivated.” From the perspective of the employees, “58% of employees said they left one-on-ones more motivated than they were prior to the meetings.” 

Even though managers and employees are typically on the same page regarding the positive effects of one-on-one meetings, the two parties do not always share identical opinions regarding the process of participating in a one-on-one meeting or how these meetings are executed. 

According to Hypercontext once more, it appears that “managers as a whole were more bullish on the positive impact one-on-ones were having on their team” than the employees were. So although you as a manager might believe that a one-on-one meeting unfolded successfully, your employees might not, which is a discrepancy worth addressing.  

Inefficient one-on-ones will yield negative results that can manifest in unfavorable behaviors at work, like an increased number of absences, low productivity levels, or higher turnover rates. In order to combat these unwanted consequences, consider the following tips, which can help you make your one-on-one meetings more ideal for both you and your employees. 

Prepare for the meetings ahead of time 
Per the Harvard Business Review, it has been said that “one-on-one meetings with direct reports often feel more hurried and disorganized than they need to be.” One major way to prevent the one-on-one meetings that you conduct from feeling rushed is by planning ahead in advance of the meeting. 

Instead of winging it and going with the flow during the meeting, try to implement the following habits:

• Schedule the one-on-one meetings in advance using the organizational tool or app of your choice so you are aware of the upcoming need to plan and prepare for the meetings. 
• Ensure that enough time has been allotted when scheduling the meetings. One suggestion in terms of creating the schedule for your one-on-one meetings is to set up a recurring 30-minute appointment that takes place at the same time every week. An alternative idea is to plan for a 60-minute bimonthly appointment, which would be held once every two weeks. 
• Make notes regarding what you need to talk about with your employees so that you stay on topic and the conversation is productive. Encourage your employees to write down anything they would like to discuss as well, as this will help them feel empowered and involved in the one-on-one discussions. 
• Inform your employees about any and all important details that relate to the upcoming one-on-one meetings. Give them an idea of what they can expect to talk about with you when the time comes to sit down for the meetings. As a courtesy, be sure to send your employees a reminder prior to the date of the meeting.
• Out of respect for your employees, never cancel any one-on-one meetings at the last minute.
• Arrive to the meeting on time so you don’t keep your employees waiting around or confused about where you are. If you are running behind schedule, update your employees and let them know. 

Learn the difference between a successful and an unsuccessful one-on-one 
When you understand how an inefficient meeting differs from an effective one-on-one, you can easily aim for the good and steer clear of the bad. 

In the same Hypercontext survey quoted earlier, it was shown that managers and employees both consider the following signs good indicators of a successful one-on-one meeting:

• Two-way communication that allows both parties to actively listen and participate
• Achievement made by the end of the meeting, such as devising a resolution to an issue
• A conclusion that results in motivated and happy employees
• An understanding that the work environment encourages open and honest communication
• The creation of a plan of action that identifies a solution to the matters at hand

On the other hand, both managers and employees have mentioned that these are indicative of poor or dissatisfactory one-on-one meetings:

• Pessimistic, defensive, or confrontational attitudes
• No agenda or flow of conversation
• Communication issues, like a lack of dialogue or equal roles in the conversation
• No clear point to or intention behind the meeting
• Little to no meaningful outcome
• An ambiance of stress, frustration, or misunderstanding
• An imbalance in conversations, causing negativity or one-sidedness

One-on-one meetings are an unmatched opportunity for you and your employees to connect with one another on a professional yet in-depth level. Doing so will often boost the productivity levels and performance of your team as a whole, but especially individually. 
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However, in order for that to happen, both you and your employees will need to put forth effort and work as a team to maximize the benefits of your one-on-one meetings. At the end of a meeting, both you and your employees should leave the one-on-one feeling like your time was well spent and meaningful.